Obituary of Gary Spampinato

Passed away peacefully at home surrounded by loved ones, on July 15, 2025, at age 68. Predeceased by his parents, Joseph and Mamie Spampinato. Survived by his soulmate, Laurie; Loving children, Kristin (Tommy) Roets, Gary (Jessica) Spampinato and Kelli (Dan) Barreca; Grandchildren, Gabby Spampinato, Joey Spampinato, TJ Roets, Jackson Roets and Giuliana Roets; Siblings, Nancy (Jim) Walzer, Dick (Karen) Spampinato, and Dave (Pam) Spampinato; Nieces, nephews, cousins and many, many dear friends.

There was no better husband, father, or poppy than Gary.  His zest for life was unmatched. He was a vibrant soul who never allowed challenges to define him and lived each day with a spirit of adventure, enthusiasm, and courage.

Gary was a rule-breaker at heart, always finding new paths and living life on his own terms. Whether he was enjoying his beloved Buffalo Bills, working tirelessly on the business he started and continued to build with his son, or immersing himself in the music he loved, his heart and mind were always in motion, and he always played as hard as he worked. But there was nothing he cherished more than the time spent with his family and friends.

Throughout his life, Gary approached everything with an infectious energy and a deep love for those around him. As he faced his 10 year battle with cancer, he did so with the same grace, dignity, and strength that he applied to every other challenge he encountered. Cancer may have been part of his journey, but it never defined him or stopped him from living life to the fullest. His determination to keep going, to stay hopeful, and to focus on the well-being of his family was a testament to the incredible man he was.

Gary's legacy is one of unwavering love, strength, and resilience. He leaves behind a family that adored him and countless friends who will remember his selflessness, his laughter, and his ability to always find hope, no matter the circumstances. Gary’s spirit will live on in the hearts of those who knew him and loved him. His journey may have ended, but his love and legacy will continue to inspire all who were lucky enough to know him.

Calling hours will be held on Monday, July 21, from 3pm – 7pm at Falvo Funeral Home 1295 Fairport Nine Mile Pt. Rd. Webster. On Tuesday, July 22, please join the family at 10am at All Seasons Chapel in White Haven Memorial Park Perinton, N.Y.

In lieu of flowers, please consider a donation in Gary’s name to Zero Prostate Cancer (www.zerocancer.org)